How Books Build Confidence and Encourage Kids to Return to School in Fun Ways

By Kids Book Author Denise Turney

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Books build confidence in kids. Even more, books open kids up to new worlds. Reading is akin to gaining a ticket to travel. Senegal, Madagascar, Spain, Italy, Ghana, Samoa, Peru, Japan, New Zealand and Iceland are a few of the places that children learn about, exploring historic sites, beautiful natural landscapes and cultural traditions – all while reading a book.

More Books for More Kids

Yet, many children do not have access to books outside of school. In fact, Literacy Trust reports that 1 in 8 underserved children in the United Kingdom do not have a book in their home. Scholastic shares that, “Children in middle-income neighborhoods had multiple opportunities to observe, use, and purchase books (approximately 13 titles per child); few opportunities were available for low-income children who, in contrast, had approximately one title per 300 children.”1

Therefore, a first step toward allowing books to help build kids’ confidence and encourage kids to return to school with a positive outlook is to get books to more kids. The importance of that is far reaching.

According to Science Daily, “Young children whose parents read them five books a day enter kindergarten having heard about 1.4 million more words than kids who were never read to, a new study found.”2 If the gap only widens as children age, by the time both sets of kids reach adulthood, the gap could be so wide and that it would take years, perhaps decades, to close the gap.

What You Can Do

Here’s a glimpse of that gap in action. Regis College and ProLiteracy share that, “Children of adults with low literacy skills are 72% more likely to be at a low reading level in school.”Let this continue for generations and an entire community, city or town will start to experience the effects.3

Fortunately, there are ways to close and reduce the gap. Donating books to libraries, thrift stores and bookstores, especially libraries, thrift stores and bookstores in under-served communities, is one way to help get more kids books to young readers. Volunteering at organizations like First Book, Reading is Fundamental, Book Aid International, Books for Africa and Reading Partners are other ways to support efforts to get books to kids in under-served areas.

You could also mentor children through illiteracy and education programs. Reading fun, educational books to the children in your life is a definite huge forward step. However, don’t just get books to kids and read books to children, choose fun, engaging books.

Choosing Kids Books

A great way to choose books that help build confidence and encourage kids to return to school with a fun and positive outlook is to let children select books they want to read themselves. When my son was a child, it was the Bernstein Bears stories. For me, it was books like Mildred Taylor’s Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry and the Pippi Longstocking books.

These books teach working together as a family, courage, confidence, facing tough situations, making friends and trying new things. As much as the stories, it’s the characters who motivate kids to read.

Consider it this way. What motivates your kids to watch certain cartoons or movies? It wouldn’t be a stretch to think that it’s the characters in these cartoons and movies. The same applies with video games that your kids like (if they play video games).

Favorite Kids Book Characters

So, whether you are donating books or picking books for your kids to read, consider the characters. Are the characters funny, lively or caring? Furthermore, are the characters outgoing, do they love to explore, are they nature lovers or is there a sport or art that they’re fond of?

If the characters love to explore, there’s a good chance your kids might learn about science, different landscapes, amazing cultures or a fun range of foods. Also, kids’ books that showcase people with different personalities interacting can help build confidence in kids who feel left out, which brings up another point.

Should your children be shy, try choosing books that have at least one shy character in them. To build your kid’s confidence, make sure these books show shy kids facing fear and going on to do what they love. The same applies to choosing books with characters who have a learning disability, whose body functions differently from other kids (i.e., child in a wheelchair, child on crutches).

Finding Really Good Kids Books

Don’t worry if you don’t find books with these types of diverse characters. Authors promote and sell books directly from their websites. All it takes is a bit of time on a search engine to discover these authors and the children’s books they write.

Other actions that you can take to use books to build confidence and encourage your kids to be excited about school include reading to your children and letting your kids see you reading books. To get the most from books, start reading to kids early.

This means that you start reading to kids when they are a few months old. No. Your child won’t understand the words you speak, but bright, fun pictures in the books will grab your child’s attention, so will the exciting tone in your voice.

Books Really Are Fun

Additionally, when kids are at your house, set aside time for the kids to pick a book to have run reading as a group. In other words, do things that make reading books fun. For example, you could ask your kids to tell you about their favorite book characters.

Another action that you could take is to let your kids hear you talking with your friends about books you’re reading. Choose books that spotlight characters preparing to go to school and you could show your kids how other students are concerned about returning to school.

Books that show kids doing fun things at school (i.e., acting in school plays, building science projects, participating in sports) can help kids see school as more than a place to sit still in a chair, do math equations and listen to instructors. To repeat, consider letting kids pick out books they want to read. As it regards using books to build confidence, this single choice empowers kids.

Make reading books about more than school-based learning, completing homework and earning certain school grades. Let reading be fun! Combining fun with diverse characters, diverse personalities, characters who exhibit courage, new environments and outdoor exploration could help your kids to become lifelong book lovers and book readers. Should this happen, your kids could grow up and donate books to organizations that support young readers in under-served communities, not to mention passing along the love of reading kids books to their own children.

Resources:

  1. Access-to-books.pdf (scholastic.com)
  2. A ‘million word gap’ for children who aren’t read to at home: That’s how many fewer words some may hear by kindergarten — ScienceDaily
  3. Child Illiteracy in America: Statistics, Facts, and Resources | Regis College

Power of Kids Seeing Themselves in Diverse Books

By Freelance Writer and Books Author Denise Turney

photo of girl sitting on sofa while using tablet to read diverse books
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Diverse books tap into the power of kids. Social skills, open mindedness, genuine acceptance of others and natural happiness are a few strengths common to kids. These strengths and others, including active listening, knowledge that there’s a lot for them to learn and a heart for the arts and creativity, empower kids. Seeing book characters who look like them put these strengths into practice opens up new worlds for kids. Even more, books with diverse characters do so much more.

Growing Up Without Diverse Books

Fortunately, the numbers of diverse books for kids are increasing. Growing up there were fewer than a handful of children’s books with characters from other cultures. Back then, it was a challenge finding books for young readers that had strong female characters.

Although I absolutely loved to read, starting and finishing dozens of books a week, I longed for stories with characters who reminded me of myself, my family, friends and neighbors. Years passed before I came across such a book which was Mildred Taylor’s Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry. To say I was shocked to discover the book, is a huge understatement.

Simply seeing Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry, a book my father gave me, a smile lighting across his face, changed everything for me. Who knows? It might be a reason why I became a novelist.

Kids Finding Diverse Books

That’s the power of kids coming across books that have major and minor characters who resemble them, their parents, siblings, neighbors and friends. More ways that kids are empowered when they read books that have characters and core experiences that mirror theirs include:

  • Supports healthy self-esteem
  • Shows kids what they can do
  • Encourages personal growth
  • Fuels creativity and a desire to continue to develop and advance
  • Impacts a child’s sense of belonging in a good way
  • Makes it easier for kids to connect with what they are reading
  • Enhances learning as kids develop deeper connections with these books’ characters
  • Sends a powerful message that kids from all backgrounds are valued and immeasurably important

A path to getting more diverse books into schools and stores goes through school and retail book buyers. Wholesalers and distributors, including digital distributors, work with independent authors, indie bookstores, libraries, hospitals, schools and major retailers to get books on their shelves.

As parents, educators and caretakers invest in diverse books, wholesalers and distributors work harder to get these powerful books into more retail, school and library outlets. This is when the power of kids can go into effect.

How to Tell Kids Are Benefitting from Diverse Stories

And it should. After all, who better to choose the books they want to read, stories that motivate and inspire them, than kids, the people who are going to sit down and read the books? Once kids feel connected to characters, they might want to read every book in a series.

But what if a child isn’t that talkative, choosing to read more than engage in verbal conversation? There are still ways to tell if a child is getting a lot of positive gain from a book. Among these signs there’s:

  • Parents and caregivers don’t have to encourage kids to read the books
  • Laughter is often heard while young readers are enjoying these stories
  • Kids talk about characters in the stories
  • Acting out fun scenes in middle-school books might become common
  • Should kids have their own cell phones, they can be overheard sharing events written in books with their friends over the phone
  • Children’s confidence rises, allowing them to tap into inner strength and lead projects they had previously shied away from

Connecting Power of Kids Thru Books

The gift of connection aids kids at home, at school and in larger society. Reading books at school that have no to few characters who look like you, speak like you or who are growing up the way you are can send kids the message that they aren’t important enough to be written about, even if only indirectly.

That certainly isn’t the way to acknowledge the power of kids. Admittedly, this is where authors come into play. Increasing sales of children’s and middle school books that have characters from a range of backgrounds encourages more authors to write these types of books.

Furthermore, fueling kids’ reading interest further comes through the chance to meet children’s book authors in person. For instance, schools can schedule author appearances, especially during cultural holidays. Educators can also ask authors to visit schools to close out discussions about a book.

In-Person Meetings with Children and Diverse Book Writers

Several schools are already doing this. These visits are positive for kids in so many ways, including:

  • Allows kids opportunity to get answers to their questions quickly and directly from the books’ authors
  • Shows kids that it’s possible for culturally diverse people to create engaging stories and earn a living doing so
  • Makes reading and writing fun
  • Shifts learning from the page to the classroom
  • Opens children up to different perspectives
  • Builds connectivity among students as they see similarities in their questions, opinions and perceptions

Also, seeing and talking with authors in person makes reading feel “real”. Even adults love to meet their favorite authors face-to-face at book club discussions. These personal interactions bring a spark to fiction.

What Are the Lifelong Rewards

Because reading books offers so many benefits, these interactions can carry lifelong rewards. Help with expanding vocabulary and understanding what has been read are two rewards. Additional rewards are:

  • Stronger empathy which helps kids relate to others
  • Improved writing skills
  • Ability to think through what they hear and read more fully
  • Exercises the brain
  • Inspires creativity
  • Opens kids up to the possibility of working in the arts
  • Enhances ability to communicate with different types of people, a skill that can help kids now and throughout their lives, especially if they step into leadership positions

Diverse Book Offer So Much Good

Whether you are a parent, caregiver, educator or youth worker, you can positively influence children’s lives, particularly middle school readers who might be at a crossroads as it regards deciding to continue or stop reading books for fun. You can power kids up, bringing diverse books that allow them to see people like them doing amazing things.

Look out for books to gift your kids with. Another step you could take is to read kids’ books yourself. See if they grab and hold your attention. If they do, they just might be a hit with your kids. Above all, encourage the kids in your life to appreciate good stories and to read regularly.

Books offer so much. There’s a wealth of information in good books. Make it easy for young readers to access this valuable information. And make it easy for young readers to have fun reading books that spotlight and celebrate characters like them.

Resources:

Importance of reading | Young Readers Foundation